tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-956827873598188877.post5152130361177851472..comments2013-03-13T10:08:01.647-07:00Comments on Life Starts Now.: No-milk morningKarihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04954414976037468873noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-956827873598188877.post-69389771336699127712010-04-26T22:27:03.066-07:002010-04-26T22:27:03.066-07:00You are mourning and it is ok. I remember mourning...You are mourning and it is ok. I remember mourning when I knew Kenzi would never nurse. The Word says there is a time for every thing under the sun, it's ok to mourn. God can handle the truth Kari and it's a good thing because He can help your heart heal too. Don't be so hard on yourself. God has bonded you guys already. He knows you are there. I will continue to keep you guys in our prayers.<br /><br />AprilStudio gaglianohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06467158015381754520noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-956827873598188877.post-20063409625478455932010-04-26T20:15:23.826-07:002010-04-26T20:15:23.826-07:00Ugh. It's a hard situation, all around. You...Ugh. It's a hard situation, all around. You're such a good mama, Kari. But, you're right, in the long run it won't matter if he is breastfed or not. Joel will be just as healthy if he isn't, and he will love you just as much. He will know you are his mommy for so many other reasons, and he'll love you unconditionally just the same. Plus, pumping sucks! I had to do it the whole time Thomas was in the hospital, and then for MONTHS afterward...it hurt, it was inconvenient, and man, we had no freezer space. We do it, because we love our kids, but honestly, pumping just sucks. When Joel is older and can understand, the fact that you pumped for so long not even knowing when or if it would help him, will be just as precious to him. Good luck with everything. Yay to not pumping every 3 hours...and get better, Joel! <br /><br />-Kayla Tersigni (Lawrence)party of fourhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14958966985047337235noreply@blogger.com